The Beautiful Struggle and Sacred Joy of Marriage

The Beautiful Struggle and Sacred Joy of Marriage

Marriage. That sacred bond between a man and a woman, instituted by God Himself. It sounds so poetic — and it is. But if you’ve been married even for a short while, you know it’s also a mix of beauty and challenge, sacrifice and sweetness.

The Bible gives us two very specific instructions:
Wives, submit to your husbands.
Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church.

Let’s be honest — neither is easy. Submission can feel unfair. Loving like Christ? That’s not just romantic love, but a deep, sacrificial, forgiving, never-giving-up kind of love. It costs.

Yet, these aren’t just poetic ideals. They’re divine principles — spiritual laws. Like gravity, they work whether we feel like obeying them or not. And when we follow them, even when it’s hard, something powerful happens.

When a wife submits, not out of fear but out of reverence for God, her obedience brings unseen blessings — peace, security, strength.
When a husband lays down his ego and loves with Christ-like humility and care, his whole life starts to align with God’s favor — in family, work, and soul.

But here’s where it gets real: we’re human.
We carry childhood wounds.
We misunderstand each other.
We get caught in emotional cycles — blaming our spouse for our unhappiness.

And yet… marriage isn’t about fixing the other person. It’s about learning to take responsibility for our own heart.

When we anchor our emotions in God — receiving His love, His joy, His peace — we stop depending on our spouse to fill every emotional gap. That’s when marriage stops feeling like a battlefield and starts feeling like a sanctuary.

Communication becomes key.
Not just talking — but real, vulnerable, transparent, grace-filled conversation.
When couples begin to accept each other, listen deeply, and show up with truth and love, even the biggest challenges can be healed.

Marriage is not just about happiness. It’s about holiness.
It’s God’s design to shape us, grow us, and ultimately, to reflect His love story.

So when it’s tough — and it will be — remember:
Obeying God in your marriage isn’t just about rules. It’s about unlocking the blessings He’s already placed within the relationship.

Don’t give up. Don’t give in.
Dig deeper into grace.
And let God’s love fill you — so you can overflow into the heart of the one you promised to walk beside.

Because this journey? It’s worth every step.
And He walks it with you.

 

You are so special!

You know what—I truly believe we are God’s favorites. The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit love us so much. When I think about the coming year, my heart is full of joy, because I know it’s going to be a year full of blessings.

We are completely accepted. We are precious. We are deeply loved by God. And honestly, when I keep thinking like this, I can already see miracles happening in my life.

Whatever you may be going through right now—maybe it’s sickness, maybe financial stress, or maybe something else—please don’t lose hope. Right now, in the name of Jesus, I speak peace and clarity over every situation. Things will fall into place, sooner than we expect.

One word I’m holding on to is abundance. When I see God as my loving Father, I know He takes care of everything. He provides in ways that surprise us—miraculously and supernaturally.

So yes, I’m excited! The coming year is going to be full of blessings, full of glory, and full of honor. And I truly believe that the good desires in our hearts will come to pass. God is good, and He is for us—always.

The God of Order in the Middle of My Moving Boxes

A few weeks ago, when we were shifting to our new home, I honestly felt overwhelmed. Even though the new place was just next door, the amount of planning felt huge. There were cartons to buy, bags to pack, things to sort, items to shift, finances to consider—every little step demanded attention.

And in the middle of this chaos, my mind was racing: How will everything come together? What if something goes wrong? Will we manage?

But then, in that very moment of tension, a gentle reminder came to me—almost like a whisper: “Your God is the God of order.”

I thought about creation. God didn’t create man first. He prepared everything—light, land, water, plants, animals—and only after everything was set in perfect order, He created man.

Nothing was rushed. Nothing was random. Everything had a beautiful sequence and purpose.

And suddenly it struck me:

If God could bring order to creation itself, won’t He do the same in my small situation?

What a comforting truth:

It is not I who have to make everything happen.

It is Christ in me, arranging, guiding, and completing every detail.

We are never operating alone. We move, plan, and act within the presence of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—a divine order that never fails. What a privilege to know that God is not only for us, but also with us and even working through us.

As these thoughts settled in my heart, something beautiful happened.

My anxious thoughts quieted.

The process began to feel lighter—even joyful.

What looked like a stressful task became a moment of witnessing how lovingly God arranges every step.

And I realized:

Shifting a home is not just about boxes and bags.

It’s a reminder that in every transition—big or small—God goes ahead of us and prepares everything in order.

When Fear Knocks — A Story of Discovering Courage

I remember a season in my life when fear seemed to sit beside me every single day. It waited for me the moment I woke up and followed me everywhere I went. It whispered questions like:

What if things don’t work out? What if something goes wrong? What if I’m not strong enough?

Fear pretends to be powerful. It acts like it owns the room.

And for a while, I believed it.

One evening, I was sitting alone, lights off, listening to the sound of my own heartbeat racing. I felt surrounded by worries — things I couldn’t control, situations that looked bigger than me. I kept thinking, I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how to face this.

And at that exact moment, a quiet thought came:

“You are not alone.”

It wasn’t loud. It didn’t come with thunder or fireworks.

It was gentle — but stronger than all my fears together.

Suddenly I remembered a verse I learned long ago:

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God.”

— Isaiah 41:10

I whispered it out loud. At first, my voice was shaky.

But the more I spoke it, the stronger it felt.

God is with me.

I am not alone.

Fear does not own my story.

That night I realized something important:

Fear grows when we listen to it, but it disappears when we talk back with faith.

The Turning Point

From that day, instead of running from fear, I started facing it.

Whenever fear said, “This is too big,” I answered with:

“The Lord is my light and my salvation — whom shall I fear?”

— Psalm 27:1

Whenever fear tried to convince me that I was weak, I held onto:

“God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

— 2 Timothy 1:7

I stopped letting fear be the loudest voice in the room.

I learned to speak God’s promises louder.

The Fear Began to Break

Slowly, something changed.

I began waking up with peace instead of panic.

I stopped imagining everything that could go wrong and started trusting the One who makes things right.

I discovered that courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s choosing faith in the middle of it.

And that when we hand our fears to God, He hands us strength we didn’t know we had.

“I sought the Lord, and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears.”

— Psalm 34:4

I learned to breathe again.

To believe again.

To stand again.

So, how do we overcome fear?

Not by pretending we’re strong.

Not by fighting everything alone.

But by remembering the One who walks with us.

When fear knocks, let faith answer the door.

When darkness whispers, speak God’s promises.

When anxiety rises, choose worship instead of worry.

Fear is loud — but God’s love is louder.

Fear shakes — but God’s peace steadies.

Fear threatens — but God protects.

A Simple Prayer

Lord, I give every fear into Your hands.

Fill my heart with Your peace, Your strength, and Your courage.

Walk with me through every step, every challenge, every unknown.

I trust in You. Amen.

The Ending

Today, when fear tries to return — and yes, it still tries —

I smile and say:

“God is here. I am safe. I am held. I am not afraid.”

And fear has no answer to that.